I’m asking because of a situation at school. I don’t want to get into too many details, but I’m being bullied and threatened.
I’m looking for advice from people who’ve actually used self-defense items rather than just Googling options. My uncle and I are planning to buy something soon, but I want it to be something I can legally carry at school and that would help me escape if things get bad. My parents think it’s unnecessary but are supportive enough to get me something just in case things escalate.
Edit: Please stop suggesting guns, bats, or anything else that would obviously get me expelled. Weapons like that are completely prohibited at school. I’ve already informed my counselor, and they’re aware of the threats. I just want advice on items I can use for self-defense that wouldn’t violate school rules. Thanks.
Please don’t bring any kind of weapon to school. Even self-defense tools like pepper spray could lead to suspension or worse if found. It’s better to focus on involving school officials or trusted adults to ensure your safety. They are responsible for providing a safe environment, so let them handle the situation.
@Gentry
I’m sorry for assuming. Definitely make sure to document everything and let adults know what’s happening. As for items, a tactical flashlight or a strong pen might be good options—they’re non-lethal and useful in other ways too.
@Sam
Keep a record of everything—dates, times, what happened, and who you spoke to. If things escalate, having documentation will be incredibly helpful.
@Ashton
Martial arts are another great option. Brazilian jiu-jitsu, for example, teaches you how to defend yourself from the ground and is a great confidence booster.
If you’re worried about carrying something that could get you in trouble, focus on learning how to defend yourself with everyday objects. A sturdy binder or even a lunch tray can be used to block or deflect an attack. But as others have said, involve school officials and document everything.
I really appreciate all the advice. I’ll be looking into some of the suggestions like the flashlight and personal alarms. Thank you to everyone who’s taken the time to reply.